The one room where she's not the main character*
At a wedding, the two of you are the headliners. Abby's job is to make you look even better: a ceremony that is personal, and funny in the right places, a reception that never sags, and guests who stop talking about the open bar and start talking about you.
She has twenty years of reading rooms, from Boston nightclubs to Provincetown cabarets to a 30,000-person Pride stage. A reception with your grandmother in the front row is well within range.
*She will, however, be the best-dressed person there who is not the couple.
- Ceremony officiantA ceremony written around your story, delivered with warmth and timing. How officiating works.
- Cocktail hourMingling, photos and a surprise number while the wedding party finishes portraits.
- Reception hostGrand entrance, toasts, the cake cutting and the moments your DJ would rather not narrate.
- A mid-reception performanceA lip sync number or two that gets everyone out of their chairs.
- After partyFor the people who are not ready to go home. Abby is never ready to go home.
- Rehearsal dinner, bachelor & bacheloretteKick off the weekend with a hosted dinner or a drag brunch.
LGBTQ+ weddings, and everyone else's
Abby has been part of Boston and Provincetown's LGBTQ+ community on stage since 2006, and a queer wedding with a drag queen at the altar or the microphone feels like exactly what it is: a celebration by your people.
She is just as happy at a traditional wedding where the couple wants the most memorable reception their families have ever attended. Every ceremony and every set is built for your guests.
From first message to last dance
- 1
Send your date
Venue, town, guest count and which parts of the day you want Abby for.
- 2
Get to know each other
Abby follows up about availability and pricing, and learns your story.
- 3
Plan with your team
Abby coordinates timing with your planner, DJ or venue coordinator.
- 4
The big day
She arrives early, stays on schedule and makes sure the focus stays on you.
Before you say yes
Will it be appropriate for our families?
Yes. Abby tailors her material to your guests. Tell her who is coming and where the lines are, and she will stay on the right side of them.
Can Abby officiate and host the reception?
Yes. Many couples book both. Choose "Wedding Officiant" and pick "Both" in the inquiry form.
Will Abby work with our planner and DJ?
Yes. Abby coordinates timing and cues with your planner, DJ or venue coordinator.
Which venues does Abby travel to?
Venues throughout Massachusetts and New England, from Boston ballrooms to the North Shore, Cape Cod and the Berkshires. Include your venue in the inquiry.
How far ahead should we book?
Once you have a date and venue. Peak wedding-season Saturdays fill first.